Why Do People Do That?

Ever wish you could ask a room full of therapists, ”Why do people do that?” Now you can! Join Heather and Stacy, Licensed Clinical Social Workers for close to 30 years, in their new podcast, where they will use their expertise to analyze and discuss issues and topical events we see in our lives! From politics to trending issues and mental health concerns, you can always expect some psychoeducation and laughs from the show. Learn more about yourself and those around you in a way that may enhance your own awareness and relationships with others!

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Episodes

Sunday Feb 09, 2025

Join us in this discussion with divorce mediator, Gina Pellettieri, Esq. https://ginapellettieri.com/ as she helps us unravel what trends are showing up in the world of divorce. We come together to share stories and insights around issues underlying break ups in society today. (As well as the surprising realization that Valentine's Day seems to bring on a break up surge!) Is V Day now break up with your partner day? Join us on this journey as we explore how gender roles, communication breakdowns and generational trauma all play a role in whether people are likely to stay or leave unhealthy relationships. You may also learn a little bit about divorce mediation, how it benefits your family and how that differs from traditional divorce with two battling attorneys.
#divorcemediation #divorce #breakups #relationships #valentinesday #valentinesdaybreakup #generationaltrauma

Wednesday Feb 05, 2025

Sometimes we get stuck in the grieving process and develop maladaptive patterns that do not serve us. Join us in our stories where we share the symptoms, blocking beliefs and unhealthy patterns that can emerge from complicated grief. From war to suicide to ealry childhood loss, we uncover several examples of what causes complicated grief, how to identify it and what to do. "Why Do People Do That" host", Stacy Pellettieri, shares her story of losing her sister at the age of 3 and Tania DuFour, trauma nurse and former podcast guest, joins the conversation to explore the very complicated and painful realities of suicide from her rral life experience.
#suicide #complicatedgrief #blockingbeliefs #grief #bereavement #siblingloss #mentalhealth

Sunday Jan 26, 2025

In this episode, we tackle the challenging topic of repeating cyclic negative patterns. Our guest, Tania, a trauma nurse and mother, bravely shares her story of personal growth and the lingering effects of past traumas. Despite her successes, Tania finds herself stuck in a recurring cycle—choosing relationships that fail to meet her desires, reflecting a younger version of herself repeating old habits. Together, we uncover the roots of these patterns, explore why they're so hard to break, and discuss actionable steps to rewrite them. Why do we stay stuck in cycles that no longer serve us? What can we do to move forward? Tune in for a conversation full of insight, empathy, and tools for change. If you've ever wondered why people do the things they do—especially when it seems to defy logic—this is the podcast for you. Subscribe, listen, and join us on the journey of understanding.
 
#repeatingnegativepatterns #negativecycles #suicide #trauma #traumabonding #codependency

Sunday Jan 19, 2025

Have you ever wondered why the actions, words, or even the mere presence of others—whether it's your partner, a coworker, or a stranger at the store—can spark such strong emotional reactions in you? In this episode, we explore the deeply human tendency to create stories, make assumptions, assign meanings, and project our inner fears or desires onto those around us. These automatic patterns often fuel misunderstandings, disrupt our relationships, and rob us of inner peace. But what if you could understand and challenge these behaviors? Join us for an insightful discussion about how cultivating self-awareness can transform your relationships and help you navigate daily interactions with less anxiety and frustration. Let’s dive deep into the human experience and uncover the tools to take control of our narratives, strengthen our connections, and reclaim our peace of mind. #innerpeace #improvingrelationships #toxicrelationships #couplestherapy #relationships #healthyrelationships #communicationskills

Sunday Jan 12, 2025

Hoarding is a common challenge that impacts countless individuals and their families daily. While it can deeply affect lives, it’s not a lifelong burden—help is available, and the issue can be managed.
In this episode, we delve into the roots of hoarding behaviors, exploring the psychological causes and offering practical tips for improvement. Our guest, Natalie Lowe, a Neurobalance Coach, shares a deeply personal and inspiring story about her mother’s harrowing experiences during World War II in Germany. She reveals how these traumatic events shaped her mother’s hoarding behaviors and the ripple effects it had on their family.
Join us for an insightful conversation as Natalie shares her journey and her expertise in helping visual thinkers find balance, self-compassion, and the tools they need to thrive authentically.
Guest: Natalie Lowe, the Neurobalance Coach! Natalie helps visual thinkers find balance, self compassion and thet tools to thrive authentically. www.neurobalancecoach.com
 
#hoarding #hoardingtips #traumaresponse #traumaandhoarding #WW2trauma

Sunday Jan 05, 2025

We are pleased to introduce our guest, long time teacher, and childhood friend, Liz Moliterno. Liz is a passionate educator and advocate for her students. As a special education teacher for high school students, Liz is in the trenches everyday witnessing the very real daily struggles of her students and the mental health crisis we are all hearing about all of the time. She has amazing insight and ideas on how we can do better as a society and systemically within education in this country. Does the education system add to the mental health crisis in today's youth? Is it their responsibiity to help these kids? This is a shout out from Liz to all teachers. "We have the power to help....let's use it, These are our kids!" Join us in this powerful discussion about what we can all do togther to bring about change for our children. #mentalhealth #mentalhealthcrisis #education #educationsystem #useducation

Thursday Dec 26, 2024

For thousands of years, humans have created New Year's resolutions for a fresh start in the new year. Year after year, as January 1st approaches, we pick a goal to work on that we are rarely able to follow through with. Why don't resolutions work? What goes wrong? Why do we still do this year after year if statistics show that they fail 86% of the time? What is the psychological benefit to having these goals and what tweaks can we make to make them more successful this year? Want to learn how to choose the right resolution this year and make it work? Join us! Let's start fresh in the New Year together!
#newyearsresolutions #newyearsresolutiontips #newyearsresolutionideas

Sunday Dec 22, 2024

ADHD comes in all shapes, ages and sizes. Whether you are an individual with ADHD or someone who is looking to help and support someone who does, this podcast offers priceless information that will offer you the knowlege you need to give the right kind of support to guide your self or your loved one toward happiness and success. What is the science of the ADHD brain? What are executive functions? What strategies and techniques are actually helpful? Research shows that children with ADHD receive 20,000 negative messages by the time they are 12 years old. If you are a parent of a child with ADHD, you can arm yourself today with the knowledge you need to really foster a healthy bond with your child and help them to love themselves. If you are an adult with ADHD, understanding your challenges better will provide you the healing and support you need to take control and embark on a helathier path. Join us!

Wednesday Dec 18, 2024

Luigi Mangione, America's sudden new famous heartthrob makes the scene. But what is he famous for? Assassinating a CEO! Please join us as we have a tough conversation about what we think may have gone wrong for Luigi, what seems to have gone wrong in society, and why there is such a strong movement supporting this cold blooded murder. Let's unpack the #freeluigi movement. 

Sunday Dec 15, 2024

Participation trophies aren't a new thing as this custom goes back over 100 years. What is new, however, is the debate. Are they really harmful to motivation and the ability to accept dissapointment? Are they helpful? Join Heather and Stacy, licensed clinical social workers, in this psychologically riveting discussion about whether the trophies help or harm our children and why this has become a trending debate.
#participationtrophies

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