Why Do People Do That?

Stacy and Heather chat with Renee Haber, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in treating PANS (Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) and PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections). PANS/PANDAS is a neuroimmune condition where infections in the body can trigger sudden, severe psychiatric symptoms—often misdiagnosed as anxiety, depression, OCD, and other mental health disorders. 
 
Renee explains how she works therapeutically with children and families while guiding them to the right physicians for accurate screening and treatment, what parents, educators, and clinicians need to look for, and why early recognition is essential for positive outcomes.
 
If you or someone you know has ever faced a sudden onset of mental health symptoms that didn’t quite add up, this conversation could provide the missing piece. 
 
Contact Renee Haber, LCSW and learn about her foundation: 
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/renee-haber-merrick-ny/306435
 
More info and resources : 
https://pandasnetwork.org/
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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In this episode, we dive into the cultural conversation around gender identity and the growing use of they/them pronouns. Why are kids pushing back against traditional gender roles? Why does it spark so much fear and resistance from parents? And what does it actually mean when a young person is exploring their identity outside of old binaries? We unpack the anxieties, the myths, and the realities behind this shift, while asking: how can families respond in ways that encourage authenticity instead of fear? This isn’t just about pronouns—it’s about breaking free from indoctrination, rethinking identity, and allowing kids to find themselves in a rapidly changing world. 
 
Disclaimer: When discussing cases, Stacy and Heather will change details around to hide identities of patients so it is not possible to detect who they are discussing, keeping things vague and partially fiction for privacy compliance.
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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In this episode, we explore why artificial intelligence, no matter how advanced, can never replicate the transformative power of human therapy. While AI offers quick validation and instant responses, therapy is far more than problem-solving — it’s a nuanced process rooted in trust, transference, and the healing relationship between client and clinician.
We discuss how true therapeutic growth comes from the corrective emotional experiences only a trained therapist can provide. Unlike AI, therapists navigate the complexities of human emotions, guide clients through deeper exploration, and foster lasting repair that technology simply cannot replicate.
Join us as we unpack the risks of relying on AI for mental health support, the dangers of reducing complex human struggles into simplistic solutions, and why the human connection at the heart of therapy remains irreplaceable.
AI might give an instant simplistic response, but it cannot heal. 
Disclaimer: When discussing cases, Stacy and Heather will change details around to hide identities of patients so it is not possible to detect who they are discussing, keeping things vague and partially fiction for privacy compliance.
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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 Social media isn’t just a distraction; it’s shaping how our kids see themselves, handle conflict, and form relationships. As they head back to school, it’s not enough to pack their backpacks. We need to equip them emotionally and mentally to navigate the digital world. In this essential episode, I break down how to help your kids build real resilience, set healthy boundaries, and handle the pressures of online life before they walk back into those school hallways. This isn’t a “nice to know”; it’s a “must know.”
Join us!
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
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District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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In this episode, we journey to a galaxy far, far away to explore the very real psychology behind fandom. Using Star Wars as our launchpad, we dive into the emotional draw of expansive fictional universes and why they resonate so deeply with us. From analyzing iconic characters to unpacking the societal nuances reflected in their stories, we ask the timeless question: why do people do that? Our guest, Kristine McPartlin — host of  @MindtheForce  , a podcast dedicated to examining mental health through the lens of Star Wars—joins us for a thoughtful conversation on how fiction mirrors reality. Together, we explore how connecting with characters helps us connect with ourselves and each other, and why fandom isn’t just escapism — it’s a way of exploring humanity. Whether you're a lifelong Star Wars fan or simply curious about the power of storytelling, this episode invites you to look deeper into the stories we love—and what they reveal about us.
Check out "Mind The Force" podcast with Kristine at this link here -
 https://www.mindtheforce.com/ 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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What happens to faith when the unimaginable happens? In this powerful and heartfelt episode, we sit down with Minister Elder Empress, who opens up about her faith journey after the devastating loss of her son. Together, we explore the sacred and often silent struggles of motherhood—mom guilt, generational trauma, identity, and the unbearable weight of grief. She shares how leaning into faith and cultivating a healthy belief system became her lifeline—a source of purpose, resilience, and a way to reframe even the darkest moments. This conversation is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the healing that can come from surrender, belief, and community.
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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In this powerful and timely episode, I sit down with Suffolk County Legislator Rebecca Sanin to discuss the critical importance of the upcoming local elections and the often-overlooked role local government plays in shaping our daily lives. But the conversation goes much deeper than politics—we explore the current political climate and the growing divide across the country.
Rebecca brings thoughtful insights into what’s fueling this polarization, from cognitive dissonance and fear to the breakdown of meaningful communication. Together, we unpack how individual citizens can take small but impactful steps toward bridging the divide, fostering unity, and building a more harmonious society.
We dive into the tough questions: How do we have unifying conversations in such a tense environment? What does it take to truly listen to — and understand — those we may not agree with? And how can we find common ground without compromising our values?
Whether you're politically active or just trying to make sense of the world around you, this episode offers a refreshing, hopeful, and grounded perspective on how we move forward — together.
https://www.rebeccasanin.com/
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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In this powerful and timely episode, we explore the roots of Pride—where it started, why it began, and what it truly means to be seen, validated, and supported. More than a celebration, Pride is a lifeline, especially for those in marginalized communities who are too often erased or targeted. We look at the mental health impacts of visibility, the weight of erasure, and the strength that comes from being recognized for who you are. As we navigate today’s hostile political climate—from surging anti-LGBTQ+ legislation to the dangerous rhetoric amplified on social media—we reflect on how the fight for equality has come full circle. With a focus on the trans community and the ongoing assault on their rights and humanity, we examine how Pride remains as essential today as it was a century ago. This episode is a call to remember, to resist, and to rise together.
 
We are pleased to invite you to this informative conversation with some of the management team, Hunter Coggins, LMSW, and Andi Frobosilo, LMSW, from PFY to discuss their experiences working directly with the LGBTQ+ community. 
 
PFY is located on Long Island, but these resources exist across the country. Below are some resources for those in need. You’re not alone. 
 
PFY
https://www.liccpfy.org/
National Hotline 
https://988lifeline.org/
 
The Trevor Project 
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
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District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
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In this deeply insightful and honest conversation, I sat down with licensed sex therapist Heather Simonson, LCSW, CST, CSE, ERYT, RPYT (Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master, and Registered Yoga Teacher (specializing in kids and pre/postnatal) to explore some of the most vulnerable and often unspoken challenges couples face around intimacy. We dive into what happens when partners have mismatched libidos, how self-esteem and body image shape our sexual experiences, and why desire often fades after having children.
We also unpack the layers of shame tied to sexuality—especially for women—and the societal conditioning that makes it hard for many to express what they truly want. From infidelity to the importance of safety in asking for what you need, we cover the complex emotional terrain of modern relationships and sexuality.
Whether you're in a long-term relationship, navigating post-baby intimacy, or just curious about how to better understand your own desires, this episode offers real talk, compassionate insights, and practical wisdom.
 
Heather's contact info:
seachangehwc.com
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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Do you sometimes feel your child's successes—or failures—reflect directly on you? You're not alone. In this episode, we explore the powerful, often unconscious ways parents project their unresolved issues onto their children. When we see our kids as extensions of ourselves, we may inadvertently make them responsible for our self-worth, tying their achievements to our value and fearing judgment through their choices.
This dynamic can disrupt a child’s developing identity, strain the parent-child bond, and contribute to anxiety, confusion, and even depression—for both parent and child. Together, we'll unpack how these patterns form, how to recognize when you're slipping into them, and how to begin shifting toward a healthier, more supportive relationship with your child. You'll learn how to tell the difference between truly encouraging your child versus subtly projecting your unmet needs onto them.
If you're ready to break the cycle and parent from a place of clarity and compassion, this episode is a powerful first step.
 
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If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites:
Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com
District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com 
ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com 
 
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